How to Handle Difficult and Incompetent Boss

A superior who is incompetent has a negative impact in working environment
and productivity-that may result to poor quality of work and low workplace
morale.

Some companies promoted the employee as a superior not only in
good performance evaluation and educational attainment
but first on the seniority basis (kung may napapansin ng ugat sa paa dahil sa katandaan na sa
kompanya)

second if he loves to eat Crab mentality( ako ang bida at magaling ngayon
dahil sinabotahe kita)

and last is sip squared or should i say sip sip.
How to solve this? Looking for a new job to escape on this dilemma is not a true solution.
Harapin ito in professional ways at alamin ang dapat gawin sa mga ganitong nakakawindang na sitwasyon.

1. Evaluate yourself- Subukang tanungin ang sarili if over acting ka nga lang
ba on some issue that your boss has raised. Constructive criticism can help
you personally.Iwasang maawa sa sarili at punuin ang galit sa dibdib dahil sa
pampupuna ng boss mo sa iyong mga ginagawa-Face it and live with it!

2.Mapanuri-Mapagmatyag-Matanglawin!-Notice if he treated all employees
the same or you are just targeted by him or being singled out.Pero kung sa
iyo niya lang ito ginagawa marahil ika'y biktima ng malaking kakulangan ng
isang lider para mamuno. Simply accept the situation as part of your work
environment or else,die!

3.Be Professional. Talk to your boss directly, address the situation in a
mature and professional manner in private. Observe Communication Protocol if needed.Let him know what you feel and ask him how to correct
the mistakes pero pagka wala siyang idea, well, do what is right!but if it will not
work, talk to a human resource representative for your complaint that will
officially documented.

Tips and warning:

1.Avoid discussing workplace problems with co-workers it may worsen the
situation-abstain from the topic and do your best at all times.

2.Stay away in a bullying workplace that may affect your performance, you
will never know they will make you a contender in a pit for cockfights.. you
versus your boss.
padayon sa pag uswag ug paglambo para sa imohang kaugalingon.bow!

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I take the blame.My apology.

If It was an attempt to be witty and smart, then you failed miserably.

Please don't be so mean. and you opted to use this medium to express yourself due to intense anger, then I consider that,

but to use this venue to insult and demean others then you went wrong . As you reduced one's worth/character, it made you smile? or contented?
well you are trying to prove to people that you are SMART that anyone could agree or conform
to your egregious statement.
My brain and even my kidney is trying to filter your insolence.

I AM not fighting you here, i just want to talk with you and trying to preserve one precious thing-FRIENDSHIP.

I admit that I made trait of acting stupid.It was never my intention or anyone to look down or accused you.

Misguided comedy aside, what i meant to infer was a joke, to provoke laughter! but i failed!

I take the blame.My apology.

we should not fight and i hope we can work together in changing this paradigm.

I don't expect to be forgiven by you but i do hope my friends were treated kindly!

I love you friend and i hope we let bygones be bygones!

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maldita megan fox

Me and my friends(pogac,joze,john,jef,meg fox,nilo,anjung and joey) watched "Transformers: Dark of the Moon",
The extraordinary duo, Michael Bay and Steven Spielberg presented the 2011's biggest blockbuster, i concluded. Our level of being emotionally aroused and worked up started when we have Sam Whitwicky on the big screen, actually its 3D.Along with his Autobot friends( Optimus Prime,Megatron,Bumblebee et al)saving the humanity from the bootless Decepticons.Thanks pogac for explaining it again to me.hehe

But the biggest question is Who's that new love interest of Sam?what happened to Megan Fox or should I say Maldita Megan Fox?

Kay tungod sa pagkatactless, insensitive, mean-spirited statement na blagadag iyahang beauty!.

After the famous producer Steven Spielberg demanded Michael Bay to expel Maldita Megan Fox in "Transformer" sequel due to the starlet's Hitler comments, that paved way for Victoria's Secret model Rosie Huntington-Whiteley to be included in the cast as Fox's better replacement.

I read in the dailygossip.org when the actress famously complained about director Michael Bay to Wonderland magazine, saying that he “wants to be like Hitler on his sets, and he is. So he's a nightmare to work for.” On the other hand, Bay says his side of the story, explaining what his “Hitler” attitude was all about: “I'm sorry, Megan. I'm sorry I made you work twelve hours. I'm sorry that I'm making you show up on time. Movies are not always warm and fuzzy.”
Bay says he wasn’t hurt by Megan’s remarks, explaining that “I know that's just Megan. Megan loves to get a response. And she does it in kind of the wrong way.” Director Michael Bay says that even executive producer Steven Spielberg told him to “fire her now”.

next time, ayaw pagminaldita ug pina mati!.

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Happy Father's Day

Papang,

Today as I am sitting all alone here, I am thinking so much of you, It's not because It's Father's Day but because you're my Father!

You know that most of the time we talked and laughed together. I even now practicing saying I love you not because it is a requirement from a son but it is my true emotions.

You let me live freely.You gave me Personal independence.
My identity as a homosexual is not an issue to you!
Infact You tend to learn my language,you're my fashion critic, my consultant, you discriminate me of my misbehavior-my number one fan.

Thanks for making me of who I am now.

Thank you for loving me,manong,suzette,third,c2,chivaz,ate venus and mamang. I admire you for that!

Acknowledging a Father on Father's day is not about a Father who provide,shares a dinner table but its more about giving unconditional love, acceptance and for being a good man that I wish to be with the rest of my life.

I love you pang,

Clief

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A cheating lover!

This is almost a laughable title,A cheating lover!
nakakatawa man pero napagdadaanan ng iilan.
Ang sakit at ang hirap ng nararanasan ng isang niloko at sinaktan ay di kayang sukatin ng ano pa mang gamit panukat!

You may think that revenge is the best way of all to "handle" the situation. but nagkakamali ka! Gagawa ka ng masama dahil sa isang kasamaan.hay naku huwag na! Its just a waste of time.

Sa isang sulok makikita mo nalang ang sarili mong nagtatanong kung anu ang ginawa mong mali para lokohin ka niya-di ba siya kuntento sa pagmamahal at sakripisyo na inalay mo para sa knya? eh masyado ka bang nagpabaya sa isang relasyon para maghanap siya ng iba?the worst aabot ka sa pagtatanong sa sarili ng ; if you are physically palatable o kaya are you the best driver in Bed(SEX) ? Nakakaloka na yan.

The damage has been done. Ang masakit na part, instead to hear an apology galing sa knya, maririnig mo yung galit at panunumbat. Instead to fix the problem he will raise more issues and concern that make you realize you should have not brought up the issue of cheating kasi may problema pa siya sa pamilya o trabaho-ikaw naman naguilty ka, naawa, nagsorry-nagpakatanga!pinalampas nlang ang problema hanggang sa lumala ang panggagago niya sa iyo.Pinamumukha sa iyo na kasalanan mo lahat kung bakit siya nagkakaganyan.But before breaking the tie of relationship itanong mo muna ito sa sarili mo.

1. Have you confronted the cheater? -

Pagtatatungin mo nmn siya dadaanin ka lang sa pacute at halik.Ikaw nmn-bumigay ka kaagad.Kaigat!
2. Do you still love the person? -

Huwag mong sabihing "oo"sasampalin kita..joke lang-naisip ka ba niya,ang pangalan mo o itsura mo habang nakikipaglampungan siya sa iba?Cheater have feeling of excitement, new and risky sex kaya addict sila na gawin ito and they dont consider your emotions.

3. Papipiliin mo pa ba siya kung IKAW o ang KALAGUYO niya? -

ito na yung pinakamasakit na part kapag hindi ikaw ang pinili niya-torture ito at suicide ,pero ana jud na dawat dawat lang!


Alam ko relationships can be repaired. You can regain the trust and love.pero kung patuloy niya pa ring gagawin-huwag nlang!

Don't cry, don't fight, don't argue. Just let him realize that cheating is unacceptable and unforgivable and you dont deserve the way he handles relationship. Move on and don't look back.

Huwag mong sayangin ang oras mo! If he is a cheater, he will always be a cheater!

Here is the tip of a life time, "you dont need a cheater because the right one comes along , value yourself because you deserve someone better.

Think about that!

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Isla Jardin del Mar; a glimpse of paradise Gumasa, Glan Sarangani Province

The 45 minute travel from General Santos City via Van to
Gumasa, Glan Sarangani Province
was such a free from roughness and bumps of the road
since watching the scenery of the province; the wide and green farms,
coconut plantation, fish ponds,the amazing Capitol of the Sarangani,
the people. It was a breath taking adventure.


Isla Jardin del Mar with its great amenities, serene white sand beach
characterized by grandeur corals and marine animals.
The vibrant color blue water filled with exaggeration that we enjoyed until sunset.
It was a nice experience to refresh ourselves away
from the usual environment like computer works, irate clients and system failure.










I commend the staff and the management for developing the area into a world class beach resorts not just to cater the natives and Generals but to other for them realize a high-end like getaway as well.


Here's the details



How to got there?

Ride a Van Starting from terminal near KCC Mall of Gensan
going to Glan Sarangani Province and pay 75 pesos for fare,
then you could ride a habal habal 50 per head going to Isla Jardin del Mar.



Thanks to my cybershot Sony Camera that captures my unforgettable moments.

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Mr. Suave ,Vhong Navarro will bang KCC Mall of Gensan

The host of phenomenal noontime show "Showtime" of ABS CBN Vhong Navarro will be coming here in General Santos City as he personally give thanks all his fans who's behind his success.

Catch his performance for free at KCC Mall of Gensan Convention and Event Center on June18, 2011 at 7:00 pm. Princess and Cliff the Star will be hosting the event- We will be providing you more games ,prizes and a lots of freebies from our partners and sponsors.

KCC Mall of Gensan values your sincere love and support as you all patronize the wet market products and our drygood items and for considering us as the Best Retailing Company here in South Central Mindanao.


Because Everything's here at KCC for you and your family !

For more information just visit the www.kccmalls.com Like us on Facebook KCC MALLS and connect us in twitter @KCCMALLS.

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