James Ingramic ka ba?Just once!

"I did my best but i guess my best wasn't good enough.."
striking line from famous James Ingram song
that connote acceptance of failure or being disregarded.



In my job wherein there's always a robust competition
to test your determination, skills and potentials
that may lead to acceptance and worst-rejection.
you should deal with it in your most gracious ways.
During this disheartening times,it requires you to be more kind and broad-minded.

1.Lagi mong isisipin na huwag mong ipagsiksikan ang iyong sarili
sa isang bagay na di ka tanggap o kaya'y di kaya ng iyong kakayahan.
kasi kung pipilitin mong gawin ang mga bagay dahil sa gusto mo lang,
maaring makatulong ka nga sa umpisa ngunit
di sapat o di kaya'y mas lalong ikakapangit ng isang obra or presentation.
so you better out!



2.For some people, accepting this situation of failure may appear hard for them to embrace
but you should respect the views and opinions of others that differ from your own,
sila ang mga hurado ng buhay mo-ang mga mata nilay saksi sa iyong mga palpak at sablay-
nakikita nila ang mga gawa mong di sila masaya at di sila kuntento.-
I suggest you to add civility to all mean-spirited individuals.

3.Huwag kang mag ngangawa jan hanggang sa humandusay nlang
because of depression and disappointment.
Look for swift justice!kung kaya mong ipaglaban do and go for it!

James Ingramic ba,Just once!

Patunayan mong may ibubuga ka pa,yung kaya mo pang higitan ang nagawa mo noon, yung may mas maibibigay ka pang maganda at makakatulong ka sa iba.


but if you're a victim of politics in your company-(eto yung may mas ibang pinapaboran kaysa sa iyo kasi magaling sumipsip), then stop the fight and toe the line instead.

4.If the people loves you it means they love what you do,
if the poeple envy you it means you can do better than them-
eh di maghanap sila ng taong alam mong mas magaling pa sa iyo.
Yung buhis buhay na performance!Tingnan natin kung di pa extinct!Go lang.




The sign of being mature person is in how you stand up and move on after someone refuse to acknowledge you and your craft.

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Happy Feeter Ako!

Teary eyed ako habang pinapanood ang magkapatid na sumasayaw sa
entablado ,nakaharap sa maraming tao -sabay na inaabot ang pangarap at
sabay na aanihin ang katas ng tagumpay!

I'm pertaining to Ramonito at Bambi of Happy Feet- siblings that fun of
watching tap dance videos in internet ,practice it,dance together and
competed in recently concluded Pilipinas Got Talent Season 2 where they
bagged 2nd place through text votes and resident judges Ai Ai delas Alas,
Kris Aquino and Freddie FMG Garcia.

Nabigyan ako ng isang pambihirang pagkakataon para makausap ng
malapitan at kalaunan naging kaibigan ang dalawang magkapatid.
Embodied with probinsiyano values and humility-naging isang magandang
experience sa akin ang makihalubilo sa kanila.

Ramonito,the eldest was so talkative and very appreciative because he never
imagined the large number of crowd in the gymnasium.
"Daghan kaayo ug tao nuh?!kaila ba na sila sa amoa? he humbly asked to me,
"OO eh!kaila na sila tanan sa inyoha,daghan mo fans dinhi!"-I exclaimed,

Sa kwentuhan naming iyon doon ko nalaman na nawala pala nila ang dance
shoes na niregalo sa kanila ni Ms. Ai Ai kasama ang 30,000 pesos na cash at
ibang mga papeles sa loob ng taxi na sinakyan nila sa Manila,pagkababa ng
sasakyan biglang humarurot ng takbo ang driver ng taxi-napakawalang hiya
tlaga!

"Wala man gud mi kabalo nga daghan mangingilad sa Manila, wala mi kabalo kay probinsiyano lang man gud mi."
-my heart was tearing apart when i heard that line from Ramon-

Then i said with emphaty "ayaw sulti ana ui, naa moy talent! mao ng importante, cge lang kwarta lang na, dali lang na makita, ang importante safe mo.!

When I turn my back to approach Michael for make-up retouch, I can't help
but cry.Di ko mapigilang maiyak sa narinig ko.

When the siblings ended their performance, I immediately approach them on
centerstage to hand them the microphone as they gave thanks to all the
people who supported them all through out
at Nagyakapan ang magkapatid-
sigawan at palakpakan ang narinig ko sa paligid while watching the two
persons overjoyed with love and support by people.

Then i realized things,that i should value my brothers and sister for they are
my family.-

Thank you Happy feet!- It's not about the color of your skin or where you from but It's all about your talent and character!

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Pilipinas Got Talent

SOCKSARGEN will be witnessing world class talents as KCC Malls bring you the Pilipinas Got Talent finalists(Happy Feet,Angel and Buildex) and the seasons grand winner Marcelito Pomoy!

Personal po na magpapasalamat si Marcelito at ang kanyang mga kasama sa suporta at pagmamahal na natatanggap nila from Mindanao fans as they will perform at General Santos Gymnasium on Aug.5 7:00 pm and on Aug. 6 7:00 pm at South Cotabato Gymnasium and Cultural Center in Koronadal City.

KCC EPA(Events, Promotions and Advertisement) will be giving Prizes and Freebies to participants of different games that they have prepared.

KCC's bests Princess and I will be hosting the event.-Thank you KCC department store for the outfit!

Because everything's here at KCC for you and your family!
For more info just visit www.kccmalls.com

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sad of goodbye

to say goodbye is the most bravest act that i will do in life..
the pain and the intense anger were running through my veins
to the point i asked myself, why someone really need to leave?

sana nagkaroon ng seminar or workshop para mapagaralan ang pag alis o pagkawala ng isang bagay nuh para mas mapaghahandaan ko, matutunan at kayanin nlang ang hirap ng iiwan..

goodbye is not an end but i guess its the start of something new-yung bago lahat-bagong experience na wala na yung bagay na kinagisnan ko.face it and move on.

maaring mahirap nga sa simula pero masasanay din ako-mwawala din ang sakit at patuloy din akong maghihintay at aasang magiging ok din ang lahat.

farewell and i love you!

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How to Handle Difficult and Incompetent Boss

A superior who is incompetent has a negative impact in working environment
and productivity-that may result to poor quality of work and low workplace
morale.

Some companies promoted the employee as a superior not only in
good performance evaluation and educational attainment
but first on the seniority basis (kung may napapansin ng ugat sa paa dahil sa katandaan na sa
kompanya)

second if he loves to eat Crab mentality( ako ang bida at magaling ngayon
dahil sinabotahe kita)

and last is sip squared or should i say sip sip.
How to solve this? Looking for a new job to escape on this dilemma is not a true solution.
Harapin ito in professional ways at alamin ang dapat gawin sa mga ganitong nakakawindang na sitwasyon.

1. Evaluate yourself- Subukang tanungin ang sarili if over acting ka nga lang
ba on some issue that your boss has raised. Constructive criticism can help
you personally.Iwasang maawa sa sarili at punuin ang galit sa dibdib dahil sa
pampupuna ng boss mo sa iyong mga ginagawa-Face it and live with it!

2.Mapanuri-Mapagmatyag-Matanglawin!-Notice if he treated all employees
the same or you are just targeted by him or being singled out.Pero kung sa
iyo niya lang ito ginagawa marahil ika'y biktima ng malaking kakulangan ng
isang lider para mamuno. Simply accept the situation as part of your work
environment or else,die!

3.Be Professional. Talk to your boss directly, address the situation in a
mature and professional manner in private. Observe Communication Protocol if needed.Let him know what you feel and ask him how to correct
the mistakes pero pagka wala siyang idea, well, do what is right!but if it will not
work, talk to a human resource representative for your complaint that will
officially documented.

Tips and warning:

1.Avoid discussing workplace problems with co-workers it may worsen the
situation-abstain from the topic and do your best at all times.

2.Stay away in a bullying workplace that may affect your performance, you
will never know they will make you a contender in a pit for cockfights.. you
versus your boss.
padayon sa pag uswag ug paglambo para sa imohang kaugalingon.bow!

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I take the blame.My apology.

If It was an attempt to be witty and smart, then you failed miserably.

Please don't be so mean. and you opted to use this medium to express yourself due to intense anger, then I consider that,

but to use this venue to insult and demean others then you went wrong . As you reduced one's worth/character, it made you smile? or contented?
well you are trying to prove to people that you are SMART that anyone could agree or conform
to your egregious statement.
My brain and even my kidney is trying to filter your insolence.

I AM not fighting you here, i just want to talk with you and trying to preserve one precious thing-FRIENDSHIP.

I admit that I made trait of acting stupid.It was never my intention or anyone to look down or accused you.

Misguided comedy aside, what i meant to infer was a joke, to provoke laughter! but i failed!

I take the blame.My apology.

we should not fight and i hope we can work together in changing this paradigm.

I don't expect to be forgiven by you but i do hope my friends were treated kindly!

I love you friend and i hope we let bygones be bygones!

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maldita megan fox

Me and my friends(pogac,joze,john,jef,meg fox,nilo,anjung and joey) watched "Transformers: Dark of the Moon",
The extraordinary duo, Michael Bay and Steven Spielberg presented the 2011's biggest blockbuster, i concluded. Our level of being emotionally aroused and worked up started when we have Sam Whitwicky on the big screen, actually its 3D.Along with his Autobot friends( Optimus Prime,Megatron,Bumblebee et al)saving the humanity from the bootless Decepticons.Thanks pogac for explaining it again to me.hehe

But the biggest question is Who's that new love interest of Sam?what happened to Megan Fox or should I say Maldita Megan Fox?

Kay tungod sa pagkatactless, insensitive, mean-spirited statement na blagadag iyahang beauty!.

After the famous producer Steven Spielberg demanded Michael Bay to expel Maldita Megan Fox in "Transformer" sequel due to the starlet's Hitler comments, that paved way for Victoria's Secret model Rosie Huntington-Whiteley to be included in the cast as Fox's better replacement.

I read in the dailygossip.org when the actress famously complained about director Michael Bay to Wonderland magazine, saying that he “wants to be like Hitler on his sets, and he is. So he's a nightmare to work for.” On the other hand, Bay says his side of the story, explaining what his “Hitler” attitude was all about: “I'm sorry, Megan. I'm sorry I made you work twelve hours. I'm sorry that I'm making you show up on time. Movies are not always warm and fuzzy.”
Bay says he wasn’t hurt by Megan’s remarks, explaining that “I know that's just Megan. Megan loves to get a response. And she does it in kind of the wrong way.” Director Michael Bay says that even executive producer Steven Spielberg told him to “fire her now”.

next time, ayaw pagminaldita ug pina mati!.

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